3 points a woman

This is what a Well-Qualified, Professionally Independent girl is and this is what she wants in her life:

First… She needs a secured monthly income of her own, for which she spent day & night in study room during her academic life. She wants to fulfill her needs, materialistic ones, and doesn’t want to depend for the small things she loves to spend on. Her existence is associated with her performance, that’s what her parents & her teachers have taught her. She needs her recognition because that gives her a reason to respect herself.

Second… She needs her society, her associates to share her experience and her views - to improve herself. She is open minded, loves to be pure & honest. Unlike her mother she needs one life partner, who can be her Friend, not her God - because she can perform, she can earn, she can decide, like her Dad. She is able to go places and adjust with the people around there. Till now in her life she got inspiration to be like her dad.

Third… She is taught to solve all the challenges herself through affection. She has the courage to struggle and survive through tough situation without needing a person to help her. She has the power to face any challenge, without having anyone beside her.

Now, even though the guys know how she is, and what she wants to do; they agree to these and then revert from their own opinions - they just suddenly change their opinions and their expectations. Why are guy so confused about what they want in life? And why are girls are so clear about what they want? I am sure there many girls who think like the above and there are many for whom the whole world is just their home. At least I am not like the one who is just confined to the four walls and the people in those four walls.

Can anyone answer me? I am so confused about this. And some time these thoughts haunt me a lot. Is anyone listening to me?


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