3 points a woman

This is what a Well-Qualified, Professionally Independent girl is and this is what she wants in her life:

First… She needs a secured monthly income of her own, for which she spent day & night in study room during her academic life. She wants to fulfill her needs, materialistic ones, and doesn’t want to depend for the small things she loves to spend on. Her existence is associated with her performance, that’s what her parents & her teachers have taught her. She needs her recognition because that gives her a reason to respect herself.

Second… She needs her society, her associates to share her experience and her views - to improve herself. She is open minded, loves to be pure & honest. Unlike her mother she needs one life partner, who can be her Friend, not her God - because she can perform, she can earn, she can decide, like her Dad. She is able to go places and adjust with the people around there. Till now in her life she got inspiration to be like her dad.

Third… She is taught to solve all the challenges herself through affection. She has the courage to struggle and survive through tough situation without needing a person to help her. She has the power to face any challenge, without having anyone beside her.

Now, even though the guys know how she is, and what she wants to do; they agree to these and then revert from their own opinions - they just suddenly change their opinions and their expectations. Why are guy so confused about what they want in life? And why are girls are so clear about what they want? I am sure there many girls who think like the above and there are many for whom the whole world is just their home. At least I am not like the one who is just confined to the four walls and the people in those four walls.

Can anyone answer me? I am so confused about this. And some time these thoughts haunt me a lot. Is anyone listening to me?


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Perplexed Thoughts...

"Blessed are the flexible, for they shall not be bent out of shape"

This is a message I received from my friend today.

One of my friend told me today about the pure heart people. Who are they? How do we judge who is clear in heart and in mind? Who are God's dearest fellow? Now, God loves everyone. The how does thee decide who are thy lovable / dearest / favourite ones?

Does he look at someone who is tall - fair - good build, just a handsome one / a beautiful one???

I guess no... What do you say about it?

Thee is unlike the human, it's own creation. Thee looks at the inner world of the human, which we are unable to see... uhaan... not 'unable'... we 'don't' try to see. The one who sees it is able to figure who is the true, pure heart person.

Now for person X, person Y is pure... however, for person Z, person Y is not pure... why does this happen?

The how can we say who is pure and who is not?

I would rather say, we are just human and are unique from each other. Then how we can say she is pure - she is not; she is good - she is bad; everything is relative, but why is everything so relative?

Why is it that at one moment we love a person so much for what (s)he is, for how she behaves, for what she has become, for how she looks; And in the next moment we hate her/him like a devil...

I am perplexed with these thoughts... 

Can you answer my questions??...

Hmm, it would be good if I frame it this way; Could you share your thoughts / perception with me??

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