I like myself

I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself... I like myself...

Are you wondering if I have gone crazy or have become mad?? Well, most of my friends thought so when they read my buzz.

Jayant, my friend, asked me, "Are you ok?".

Some anonymous people, whom I don't know personally commented like these:
> "It is as good as you practice 'Gayatri Mantra' or 'Vishnu Sahasra Nama'... ... :):):) It is only practicing and nothing else... Have nice day... :):)"
> "I like myself... So what? Go ahead with your self love..."
> "ohh goddamn..grt treatment 4 success employed by u..keep going and let me knw if u gt +ve results soon."

I replied with the following:
"I am perfectly fine and I not only like myself, I love myself... and FYI, this a success mantra from Brian Tracy and as per me Only if I like myself, then only I can like others. If I hate myself, I can never like anyone else."

Whatever I replied - did I reply anything wrong? Well, I don't think so... Only when your self-image is good, if your self-esteem is good, then only you can appreciate anyone else. Then only you can raise the self-esteem of others. Otherwise, you know the answer...

Whenever, you are nervous, you are low just chant this mantra, and you will see how you will lit up and would feel that self-confidence.

To know more listen to Brian Tracy's Self-Made Millionaire CD.

♥ ~ Smile

Happy Mother's day Mommy

For all that you have given me,

I can return but love. For you

Bound up the wounds I did not see

And gave me hopes and passions new.

I can return but love for you,

Whose unmoved faith my heart did move,

And gave me hopes and passions new,

And loved me till I turned to love

Whose unmoved faith did my heart move?

The mother of my heart, not blood,

Who loved me till I turned to love.

And I became the soul I would.

The mother of my heart, not blood,

Bound up the wounds I did not see.

And I became the soul I would

For all that you have given me.

- Nicholas Gordon

Happy Mother's Day Mommy...

Happy Mother's Day '10

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_catCndXJM

Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata,,Meri Maa

Bheed Mein Yun Na Chodo Mujhe
Ghar Laut Ke Bhi Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Bhej Na Itna Door Mujkko Tu
Yaad Bhi Tujhko Aa Naa Paoon Maa
Kya Itna Bura Hoon Main Maa
Kya Itna Bura Meri Maa

Jab Bhi Kabhi Papa Mujhe
Jo Zor Se Jhoola Jhulate Hain Maa
Meri Nazar Dhoondhe Tujhe
Sochu Yahi Tu Aa Ke Thaamegi Maa

Unse Main Yeh Kehta Nahin
Par Main Seham Jaata Hoon Maa
Chehre Pe Aana Deta Nahin
Dil Hi Dil Mein Ghabraata Hoon Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Hai Naa Maa
Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Meri Maa

Main Kabhi Batlata Nahin
Par Andhere Se Darta Hoon Main Maa
Yun To Main,Dikhlata Nahin
Teri Parwaah Karta Hoon Main Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata, Hain Na Maa
Tujhe Sab Hain Pata,,Meri Maa

The scared women

Male - female ratio in India is 1000:880. I felt bad earlier for the number of female is less in India. However, these days I am feeling good for the number is less. Especially because the number is less in India. Reason - this is a completely male dominated society. A girl is brought up lavishly like a Queen, she gets married to a person of her cast, as per her family's choice. After marriage whatever suffering she goes through no one takes responsibility of that. Before marriage the parents eagerly search for proposals. Whoever is a bit good, having good property, they handover their daughter to them.

Then all of them, the husband, the in-laws, the parents expect the girl to do all sorts of work that she had not done in her so far life. They expect her to each and every work herself. Some families don't even allow cook and maid, just because they feel its a waste of money, when they have already got their Bahu (daughter-in-law). How far may be the house still they would stay in the same house they spend less money for. The women of today are becoming weaker and weaker in terms of their health. Mentally they are powerful for they are yet dealing with so many people in and out of family. Whatever may happen it's the womens' fault. She is blamed for everyone's mistake. Whoever, whatever she may be, but she is expected to do all house-hold and outside and office work. Her contribution to the new house is considered as something obvious. 

If she falls sick, it's her fault. If she has a miscarriage, it's all her fault. If she is getting cold and caugh problem frequently, the question would be asked, why are you getting cold so frequently? But no help would be provided to her, she has to get rid of it automatically. If she is not liked any more then she will be asked to give divorce or will be pushed off from a mountain. Now, the role of the parents is really wonderful hear. The father of the bride later would tell, you are a woman, so you have to compromise. That's what women has been doing since ages. As per him the bride groom is supposed to just enjoy a lavish life and the bride has to serve him. Not only the father, the mother too asks to compromise. They all say, "What to do? We are destined for this. We are female, born for kitchen and household work." What a wonderful parents. Pathetic is just a small word to describe them.

And about scolding what people don't realise is the story of Salmon Island is applicable in human life, adult or young it's applicable to all. In Salmon island when people want to clear some trees, they don't cut the tree. They all gather near the tree and curse and scold and take all their bad frustrations. After few days the tree becomes weak. And finally after few weeks it dies automatically. Such is the case with human. Are we really destined to tolerate, listen the scolding, discouragements just because we are women? I don't know the answer, thus, asking about it. 

I feel happy sometime for those dead girl babies who did not come to the world, to India, to be taken for granted. I feel sad for even if our country has developed to great extent, still we women are seen as powerless, weak and yes, we are made that even if we were powerful when we were young and teen. We are made to be scared of people and then we are told that you girls get scared easily outside home. Who has made us scared of? It is the parents, the siblings who constantly show their power on their youngsters. I have many friends who are younger to their brother and the brothers always who case their power, their control over their sisters. The female starts getting scared of the world then. She is scared of the family members and thus is scared of the society. How can she be independent then? Her thoughts are always controlled by the father, son, at times mother. She becomes so dependent on them that if they all, unfortunately die, the lady becomes helpless and becomes a prey for the vultures of the society.

We say we want to make the women strong. But that doesn't happen, for the base is so weak, how come the house will be strong? In my opinion, everything starts from the family. Be it emotions, strength, courage, business, communication, leadership, the power to invent and discover. For how many days a person would surf the internet or read the books continuously to get some motivation. It has to come from the family, and thus is the property that everyone carries forward from generation to generation. The way a father behave to the daughter or wife, the son will behave the same way to the females of the world. Cause that's what he has learnt from the so called first school of his life, the Home. If you make the female of your own house scared of you, believe me outside the house they are going to get scared of every single person. And you unintentionally make them victim of uninvited incidents, which they could have easily avoided if they were strong enough to think about the solution and not just get worried of the situation.

My job was to suggest you some ways... The rest is all in your hand. I hope you people are listening to me, rather us - women.

FIFA World Cup 2010 - Wavin Flag

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMophHw6iX4

Feel the power embedded in each and every word of this song... with every beat of the music negative vibrations tend to drift away from you... The song doesn't just apply to the game, it does apply to all parts of our life...

Here's the lyrics of it:

When i get older, they’ll call me freedom
Just like a Waving Flag.

Oooooooooooooh woooooooooohh hohoho (2)

Give me freedom, give me fire, give me reason, take me higher
See the champions, take the field now, you define us, make us feel proud
In the streets are, exaliftin , as we lose our inhibition,
Celebration it's around us, every nations, all around us

Singin' forever young, singin' songs underneath the sun
Lets rejoice in the beautifull game.
And together at the end of the day.

WE ALL SAY

When I get older I will be stronger
They'll call me freedom Just like a wavin' flag
And then it goes back
And then it goes back
And then it goes back
And then it goes (x2

Oooooooooooooh woooooooooohh hohoho (2)

Give you freedom, give you fire, give you reason, take you higher
See the champions, take the field now, you define us, make us feel proud
In the streets are, exaliftin, as we lose our inhibition,
Celebration, it's around us, every nations, all around us

Singin' forever young, singin' songs underneath the sun
Lets rejoice in the beautifull game.
And together at the end of the day.

WE ALL SAY

When I get older, I will be stronger
They'll call me freedom
Just like a wavin' flag

And then it goes back
And then it goes back
And then it goes back
And then it goes (x2)

Oooooooooooooh woooooooooohh hohoho (2)

When I get older, I will be stronger
They'll call me freedom
Just like a wavin' flag

And then it goes back
And then it goes back
And then it goes back
And then it goes (x2)

Oooooooooooooh woooooooooohh hohoho (2)
And everybody will be singin' it.
Oooooooooooooh woooooooooohh hohoho (2)
And we are all singin' it.

The song and its lyrics has such power that I, a non-sports person, am planning to watch FIFA Football world cup 2010. And I will...

Enjoy the music and the depth and power of it...

♥ ~ Smile

Read ahead to understand women

I have moved this story to another blog of mine.

Please refer below:
http://vitaminsformind.blogspot.com/2010/05/this-was-story-shared-by-one-of-my.html

Inspiration from 'Walk The Talk' - 03

It is the friends you can call up at 4 a.m. that matter.

~ Marlene Dietrich

 

How many friends have you got such? I have got 3-4 (C, S, P, D) so far. Robin Sharma in one of his book "Who will cry when you die?" has mentioned that a person need to have 5 such friends. If he/she has got them then his life is worth living. Don't you think so? It's your that friend who always supports you blindly without trying to find out any benefit from supporting you. It is they who believe you, trust you, have faith on you, motivate you, support you... even more than your family members or anyone else. I am proud to have my best friends and they are with me in all shades of my life bearing that torch of comfort, care, affection, love, respect, honesty to drive me in the right direction. Hope you keeping in touch with your best friends.

♥ ~ Smile

Quote of the day - 01

"Invest in truly important things in life. Remember, everything that is worth something costs something."

This is the quote showing in my "daily table calendar" today. This quote has kept me engaged since morning. Every now and then this thought is flashing a glimpse of my past experiences, raising lot of questions in my mind. And those thoughts are making me overwhelmed of what I have achieved and what I have lost. That's forcing me to look at the calendar - quote and the picture in it - again and again. I must have looked at that quote today atleast 20-30 times or may be even more than that. It really is urging me to turn the pages of my past even faster. I feel like I am scampering even the digged pages of my life.

Yes, this is true and is a fact that everything costs you as, "There are no free lunches in this world!" You want something you have to pay some toll for that. Some time that toll is your friendship, your family, your existing career/job, your emotions, your wishes... Its upto us to decide what is important for us. We must make sure we invest on things that are most valuable in our life. It should be our family, friends, relations for the true ones will never return if you have ample money. I know you understand what I mean and I don't need to elaborate on this.

Hope you invest your time appropriately on right things/people/realtions.

Take care

♥ ~ Smile